J. Kent Achterberg

Born: Wed., Jan. 18, 1939
Died: Sat., Jun. 14, 2014

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J. Kent Achterberg Jan. 18, 1939 - June 14, 2014 OSCEOLA - J. Kent Achterberg, cherished husband, adored father and beloved grandfather, peacefully left for heaven on Saturday, June 14, 2014, after a courageous fight with a recent illness. He is survived by his wife, Victoria; his children: Stephanie, Justin, Melissa, John, Jeremy and Katharine (Nicholas Getzinger); and his grandchildren, Kelsey, Alexis, Destaney, Brent, Kenton, Hunter and Keegan. He is also survived by a daughter, Dana and son, Daniel. Waiting for him in heaven are his faithful yellow lab, Duke, his father, John H. Achterberg, his mother, Anna Mae Achterberg (Perkins), his grandparents, Amandus & Caroline Achterberg, George & Eva Perkins and Ruby & Louis Allen, and his special Uncle Alvin and Aunt Helen. J. Kent was born on January 18, 1939 to Anna Mae and John Achterberg. He grew up in South Bend, Indiana and as a child often eagerly traveled to the family farm of Amandus and Caroline Achterberg in Benton Harbor, Michigan. He was very proud of his German heritage. He also enjoyed many days at Leeper Park or eating ice cream in downtown South Bend with his precious "Nanny". He attended Madison Elementary School in South Bend and graduated from South Bend Central High School in 1957. Upon graduating from high school a semester early he enlisted in the United States Marine Corps. He was stationed at Camp Pendleton in San Diego, California from August, 1957 until his discharge in August, 1959. He was honorably discharged as a Corporal (E-4). Once a Marine, Always a Marine. After leaving the Marine Corps, Kent returned to South Bend. Throughout his adult life, he worked as a sales professional: from selling frozen foods on a route between South Bend and Chicago, to selling cash register equipment for National Cash Register, to becoming a car salesman at various dealerships in the area, to later becoming the first Fleet Manager at Jordan Volvo before retiring in 2003. In 1973 he met Victoria Jasiewicz and they were united in holy matrimony on January 18, 1975 in the Chapel at the First United Methodist Church in downtown South Bend. They were blessed with just over 39 years of marriage and shared a home they proudly had built in Osceola, Indiana. They created six children together, all of whom he loved unconditionally, to continue his heritage: Stephanie, Justin, Melissa, John and twins, Jeremy and Katharine. He was a proud Grandpa "Papa" to seven grandchildren, all of whom he treasured dearly: Kelsey, Alexis, Destaney, Brent, Kenton, Hunter, and Keegan. Kent loved history, reading, watching horror movies and his daily episodes of Judge Judy. He also enjoyed a good poker game or a trip to the casino. He was a collector of John Wayne "The Duke" memorabilia. He loved and was proud to attend school functions and sporting events for his children and grandchildren. But what he loved most was spending time with his family, particularly the Sunday afternoon gatherings with his children and grandchildren. He was the giver of advice, the protector of his family and the rock of security. Kent will be laid to rest at Southlawn Cemetery in South Bend. A private family service will be held on Saturday. Welsheimer Family Funeral Home and Crematory assisted the family with arrangements. Family and friends may leave e-mail condolences at www.welsheimer.com. Memorial contributions may be made in Kent's honor to the Wounded Warrior Project, 4899 Belfort Road, Suite 300, Jacksonville, FL 32256, http://www.woundedwarriorproject.org. Kent, Dad & Grandpa - We are so proud and grateful to have had YOU as a Husband, a Dad and a Grandpa. No one will ever love us the way that you did. You are forever in our hearts. See you later.



Charitable donations may be made in J.'s memory to the following organization:

Wounded Warrior Project
4899 Belfort Rd. Suite 300, Jacksonville, FL 32256

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Frank Held
   Posted Wed June 18, 2014
I want to express the condolences of the Held family . Kent impressed me as a good man the few times Steve and I met him. I wish we could have gotten to know each other better.

I am Alexis's other grandfather.
Frank Held

Pat Huemmer
   Posted Thu June 19, 2014
Dear Vicky & Melissa: My deepest sympathy on the loss of your loved one. My prayers are with you daily. Your Sister, Pat Huemmer

Zanette (Gregory) Kostin
   Posted Thu June 19, 2014
My deepest sympathy goes to J.Kent's family and friends. I have wonderful memories of J.Kent, as we attended Madison grade school and Central High School together. I have a picture of my Halloween party when we were about 7 or 8. I think he was dressed as a pirate! He was a wonderful friend during those years. I will always remember him fondly. I know that his family is very proud of him and I only wish that we could have continued our relationship after graduation. May you all have peace of heart.

Alex and Lori Edgar
   Posted Thu June 19, 2014
We are saddened by the loss of your beloved husband, father and grandfather.

Sharon L. Emmert
   Posted Fri June 20, 2014
To Vicky, Stephanie, Melissa & all family,

You all have my deepest, heartfelt sympathy, at this hard time in your lives.
Kent was an amazing man, who cared so-o deeply for his family! I respected him, so much. My prayers are with you at this time of sorrow. This has to be so hard for you. May God bestow his blessings on all of you!



Pam Wetzel
   Posted Sun June 22, 2014
Dear Vicky and Melissa;
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved husband and father. May God grant you his peace and presence through this time.