Anne O'Brien (O'Brien) Abernethy

Born: Fri., Dec. 3, 1948
Died: Mon., Jun. 3, 2013


Visitation

4:00 PM to 7:00 PM, Fri., Jun. 07, 2013
Location: Cleveland Rd. Location


Celebration of Life

11:00 AM Sat., Jun. 08, 2013
Location: 1st United Methodist


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Anne O. Abernethy

December 3, 1948 – June 3, 2013

 

 

Anne O’ Brien Abernethy, 64, of South Bend died peacefully Monday, June 3rd in the Elkhart Hospice House surrounded by her loving family following a courageous 6 ½-year battle with Breast Cancer.

 

Anne was born December 3, 1948 in South Bend to the late Nancy (Henderson) and John W. O’Brien and was a lifetime resident of the area. She graduated from St. Mary’s Academy and received a B.A. degree in 1970 from Western Michigan University. Following graduation, she became a Real Estate Broker and then a Mortgage Loan Officer before starting her family. On July 1, 1978 in South Bend she married John “Spike” Abernethy who survives. Also surviving are three daughters, Sarah Petty (Ken) of South Bend, Megan Caplis (Tom) of Clarendon Hills, IL, and Molly Roussell (Aaron) of Lewisburg, PA; five grandsons, Benjamin, Cameron and Cooper Petty, Connor Caplis, and Riley Roussell; two sisters, Kathy Rochette (George) of Goodyear, AZ and Patricia Cotter (Michael) of Helena, MT; and two brothers, John J. O’Brien (Linda) of Mishawaka and Major O’Brien of Naples, FL.

 

Anne was a wonderful wife, mother, grandmother, sister and friend. She was always very involved in her children’s school activities. She enjoyed reading, traveling, gardening and spending time with her family at their lake cottage in South Haven, Michigan. Anne was a dedicated board member of the IU Simon Cancer Center Development Board and the Indiana Landmarks Foundation Board. She and Spike served as loving foster parents for several newborn babies until they were placed with their adoptive families. Anne also served as the Archivist of the First United Methodist Church, was on the Collections Committee of the Center for History, and contributed her time and talents over many years to the Camp Eberhart Alumni Association, having attended Camp as a camper and counselor over 14 fabulous summers. She loved sports and faithfully followed her ill-fated yet beloved Chicago Cubs.

Anne’s family would like to thank Dr. Rafat Ansari and his wonderful staff as well as the nurses and doctors at The Center for Hospice Care for their compassionate attention.

 

A celebration of Anne’s life will be held at 11:00 a.m. Saturday, June 8th at First United Methodist Church, 333 N. Main St., South Bend with Rev. Mary Hubbard officiating. Committal services and burial will follow in Highland Cemetery. The family will receive friends from 4 until 7 p.m. Friday, June 7th in the Welsheimer Family Funeral Home North, 17033 Cleveland Rd.

 

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to: IU Foundation/SCC Breast Cancer Research, P. O. Box 660245, Indianapolis, Indiana, 46626-0245; or Camp Eberhart Alumni Association, Inc., 316 S. Eddy Street, South Bend, Indiana, 46617.

 

Family and friends are encouraged to leave e-mail condolences at www.welsheimer.com.

Charitable donations may be made in Anne's memory to the following organizations:

IU Foundation/SCC Breast Cancer Research
P. O. Box 660245, Indianapolis, Indiana, 46626-0245

Camp Eberhart Alumni Association, Inc.
316 S. Eddy Street, South Bend, Indiana, 46617

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Joe Mancini
   Posted Thu June 06, 2013
Spike - we will all miss Anne. She was a very warm and loving person, always giving and looking where she could help and assist others.
A true gem... she will be missed greatly.

God Bless you and your family.

Joe Mancini

Mike, Jill, Ollie and Shea Lane
   Posted Fri June 07, 2013
Our deepest sympathies and prayers are with your family at this sad time. We hope you will find comfort over time in your many wonderful memories.

Barbara Burlingham
   Posted Fri June 07, 2013
As an adoption specialist for Catholic Charities for more than 26 years, I have had the pleasure of working with Anne as the foster mother of our babies - who became for a brief time, the babies of your whole family! She was always gracious and giving of her time and love as you well know. I have a letter she wrote me when she ended fostering and since she mentions her three duaghters, I thought you all might like to read it. If so, let me know at 234-3111 and I will send you a copy."...at the last moment, I am absolutely passive in the hands of the great unknown forces that have formed me..." Teilhard de Chardin

Tom & Terry Slamkowski
   Posted Fri June 07, 2013
Spike

Although we are unable to be with you in person, we want you to know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Anne was a special lady. We pray that you all will be reunited one day in God's heavenly kingdom.

Love,

Terry and Tom Slamkowski

Kevin Slater
   Posted Fri June 07, 2013
I have countless fond memories of the entire O'Brian family. Many of those memories include Anne. I pray for the family. Please accept my deepest sympathy. God bless Anne. I pray for the family in this time of healing.

Leslie Ugol
   Posted Fri June 07, 2013
Dear Spike and Family,
Being fellow "pioneers" at the Haven, Anne's presence will be missed. At the same time, she will never be forgotten and will live on in your families' hearts. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all,

The Ugol Family

Mary Grace Zakowski
   Posted Fri June 07, 2013
Being unable to attend the wake, or celebrations of Anne's life, I wish to extend my sympathy to your entire family for this loss. You all will be, and have been in my thoughts and prayers.

Mary Grace

Dea Andrews
   Posted Fri June 07, 2013
Sarah,
Today Jeff Gibney and I came to the funeral home too early and could not stay. We want you and your family to know that we celebrate Anne's life through fond memories and through watching her spirit reflected in her children - you in particular since we know you best. Bless all of you for being such a cohesive and bonded family. I am sure that as Anne left her pain behind she was buoyed by having her family around her.

We are holding you and your family in the Light for warmth, courage and healing.
Dea

Todd and Laura-Pfeil Elliott
   Posted Fri June 07, 2013
Our Deepest sympathies at the loss of your wife. Grace and peace to all the family.

Catherine and William Hostetler
   Posted Sat June 08, 2013
Among Your blessed ones, give rest, O Lord, to the soul of Your departed servant...May Anne's Memory Be Eternal.
She will be missed and remembered by all whose lives she touched. Our deepest sympathies to her loved ones.

Betsy Hall
   Posted Sun June 09, 2013
Spike and family, I loved anne and am so so deeply sorry for your loss. She was one of my dearest and most beloved friends growing up and I loved seeing her when I came back to town. I know how deeply she loved you all and all the happiness she had with you. I am grateful to you for all the love she had in her life and know she is close by. I am grateful and honored to have been a friend of hers.
My love and condolences to you all. Betsy Hall

Sandy Green
   Posted Sun June 09, 2013
Geoff and I are thinking of all the O'Brien/Abernethy family at this sad time. We are so sorry for your loss!

We welcome the opportunity to support the Camp EB fund in Ann's name.

Sandy Green and Geoff Lamb

John Gaski
   Posted Sun June 09, 2013
Dear Spike & family, and Patty, John, Major, Kathy & family,

I offer my total sympathy and condolences on the loss of a great lady. Hang in there and take care of each other.

Sincerely,

John Gaski

Dennis Brennan
   Posted Wed June 12, 2013
Spike, Patty, I just learned of your loss. She will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Denny Brennan

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